In November I downloaded the dating app Lovoo and I set up the time frame for about 2 months. Now since the last couple of months were very stressful I still owe you the results, so here it goes:
To start off: I still haven't deleted my profile or the app from my phone- which means first of all no relationship came from it and secondly I have to admit I like playing the matching-game.
But let's start at the beginning: After I downloaded the app and set up my profile with 3 pictures and some personal information I was good to go. I am a little paranoid by the whole GSP-tracker thing and this function was disabled all the time. With the matching game you get (depending on how big the city is you are living in and how many users there are) lots of faces thrown at you you can either like or dislike. I am a very cautious person so I only liked a specific type of guy AFTER visiting the profile and get a look on all the provided pictures and the information. If he is a smoker for example there is no way I would like him. So I really was and am very picky because you get the feeling of...well I got the feeling if I press the like button I should be willing to meet up with him on account of this first impression and information (yeah I know most guys do not even enter your profile just like or dislike your profile picture..but that's just the way I am.^^)
I got quite a few matches right away and after texting with a few of them I decided to meet with one guy. He turned out to be very arrogant and not unfriendly...but well we just didn't hit it off and I noticed right at the beginning he was very disappointed with the real version of me standing in front of him. But he was not mean or did anything to convey that- it just didn't work out at all. But in all seriousness: if he would have turned out to be a 60 year old trucker guy I would have given up any hope at all in this app and deleted it right away- so all in all that first meeting was okay.
After a few more weeks of texting another guy and deciding we wanted to meet, we started talking on the phone everyday which was nice since there at least I knew we could talk about topics I was interested in. When we finally met up I was very glad I gave it another try because he was very nice, we had things to talk about and he basically was the perfect gentleman: nice, attentive and good spirited. I really enjoyed that evening a lot and we saw each other the following day as well. Then some time passed again but we did meet up a couple of times during the next month until he was very busy and well I actually wasn't very interested anymore anyway. The whole thing was very slow (we had 5 dated before he made any move to kiss me) and by the time he started like he wanted more I was completely not interested in that anymore. So as you can imagine: that did not work out either. But I am very grateful to him because he gave me a little faith in online dating, dating apps, etc.
Now months have passed and I haven't met up with anyone else. I texted with a couple and I really enjoy swiping left or right but I think I will delete my profile and the app very soon and start to go back to the "if it's supposed to happen it will happen"-mind set and just hoping to stumble across a nice guy in real life.
All in all I am proud of myself for taking a chance and putting myself out there and even got to know someone out of this- even if it didn't lead to a relationship in the end.
To all of you who want to do the same and try some kind of app or online dating site: Yes, I would do it again. Just to give myself the little push you sometimes need to get out there and also to have the opportunity to make up your mind whether online dating is for you or not. Loads of people find partners via these sites and apps so why not? But I also have to mention that there were (as expected) some guys who clearly did just have one thing in mind. But if you are aware of that and are a little cautious and careful: why not try it? There are loads of nice guys and girls with the same mindset as yourself out there who probably are a little shy to make the first move or just do not know where to meet people these days.
I would love to hear some of your experiences and opinions on that matter so please comment ;)
Cheers for now,
Mags
